Hi Rick! My AP keeps contacting my husband. We are 9 weeks from d day and exactly 4 weeks from last contact, which also was the do not contact me(unfaithful) ever again date. Four weeks ago my AP texted my husband twice apologizing, asking for my husband to pray for him and saying he would pray for us. Then yesterday, he texted my husband again with a "good afternoon, hope things are better, I pray for you and your family daily, he (the AP) has not forgotten us and God bless my husband"!!! Needless to say, my husband was annoyed and we both viewed it as an intrusion to our healing and ripping the scab off of our wound. Do we ignore this contact or do we send something back telling AP to not contact my husband ever again. We have already told him not to contact me. My AP is in the Church and we thought he may be worried my husband will disclose info that will put his position in jeopardy. We also see this recent text and others as manipulation. Rick, what is your take on it all? Thanks!!