Given the fact that Affair Recovery, as well as my family, have given Gottman influence in my life, I need to know that they are not encouraging infidelity. Although, I cannot see any other lens to view this article through. It appears to be validating the infidelity because it allowed the writer to validate her sexuality as a result of it. This seems contrary to the Gottman principles and teaching. I welcome your thoughts and feedback on this. https://www.gottman.com/blog/my-sexual-fluidity-woke-me-up/