As I am doing my inner and healing work, I feel my spouse is trying to break me down. He’s not really doing any individual work. He says that he’s willing to see a marriage counselor and individual counselor, but reminds me that he’s just ready for this thing to just be over and how long will I continue to hold on to this pain. I think he’s not willing to face the consequences of his actions but I could be wrong. He says he’s ready to end this and this thing is dead but he’s not making a move. I’m so confused. What do you recommend?