My unfaithful husband went from almost no affection for 29 years and no intimacy for over 3 years prior to discovery 16 months ago to constantly being affectionate, always holding my hand, affectionate texts, talking etc and more intimacy than we had in the 29 years. He was very romantic with his AP, mainly verbally. He broke it off with her on D-Day. Can a person sincerely do a 180 on the way he treats his wife after an affair?