Hi Rick,

I found an article from 2012 about "Financial Infidelity" that you wrote in the recovery library. This is an area my unfaithful spouse struggles with, but doesn't seem to understand how it is another form of betrayal. In the article you talk about how a betrayed spouse will get stuck in recovery when there is also another type of betrayal such as financial infidelity. I've tried to explain this feeling of being stuck and unable to trust him in any area because of the non-transparency. I'm not on his bank accounts and do not know how much his small business even makes every month and have never been provided with the financial information. He's owned the business for the past 10 years. I feel very vulnerable, and unable to move on from his affair due to his continuation of infidelity or the keeping of secrets. Please expand on your thoughts of financial infidelity.