In a previous Q&A you stated that love acts in the interest of the other person. In our case we are a both an my spouse and I have so much anger that our marriage,kids and life balance is very hard to get through as we juggle our recovery it seems that if I act out of love at this point the soulution would be a separation. I don't see how I can push my feelings down or my spouse as well push there feelings down and continue to have the light shined on me without my spouse accepting responsibility for there actions. would it be a right for me to act out of love and say we need a healthy separation to give my spouse the space they need to heal. we have kids and also see the hurt it would do to them if we separate what do you suggest