My husband has had multiple affairs in the 2 years we've been married and even before marriage. He's never been forth coming in confessing, I've only found out about the affairs through searching his phone and social media. I'm at a loss as to how much more I can take. We are active in church together, we pray together. I don't question his love for me. I know he has an addiction. My concern is I don't think he's taking the appropriate steps to stop/avoid relapsing in his sexual addiction. I don't want to be an enabler, but I feel that I might be by allowing him to continue the behavior. He has refused counseling, and thinks he can do it on his own. I do suspect he's not being faithful currently, even though I don't have proof. Do I move out? Do I stay? How far to the bottom does he need to go before he straightens up? I'm truly at a loss.