Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: It's been ten months since D-day. My husband had a 4 1/2 year affair. We've gone through the EMS course. We are in counseling. He is committed to staying with me and is doing all the right things. I'm still in so much pain though. Sometimes I think I will never get over this. He still has daily thoughts and feelings about the AP, which causes me so much pain. Is this affair too big for us to get over? Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Find HopeHandling DiscoveryQ&A Recovery LibraryStrengthening MarriageWhy Marriages FailRL_Media Type: Video