How am I supposed to be the best husband I can and want to be toward my wife that cheated on me? It seems like it would be so much easier to treat a new/different woman the way I want to be because I wouldn't always think about what she did to me. I guess I don't feel like my wife deserves the husband I want to be. Do you think she does after falling out of love with me and falling in "love" with another man? Having sex with another man? In my marriage bed? I just can't seem to commit to her now after what she did. It's like I don't want to and would betray myself if I did.