Q&A How Can I Even Think About Trust Now?
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Question
Just as I was beginning to trust - 4 months after discovery and trickle truth - I finally let me guard down and was beginning to trust again. It was for smaller things, but I was getting more comfortable - feeling the glimmer of safety. Today I just found out he has NOT severed contact with his affair partner. He's still looking at her social media profiles and has many other avenues of watching her from a distance. He may feel its okay, since he isn't directly contacting her, but I feel that is seriously disingenuous. I feel gutted. What can I do? How can I even think about trust now? I feel so disrespected, used & stupid - Again!
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