My husband had a 5 month affair and the problem I am facing now is that I am blocked with the presence of AP. She is still there at work where I have no visibility at all. He is saying he is ignoring her but she is not and last week she started again with business emails that were too complimentary to be appropriate under the circumstances. I asked him to reply and ask her to end this game and then she desperately asked to meet alone and speak and then she will leave him for good. I told him that if he will do this he will lose me for sure because I will never know what they speak, I will not believe even if he will tell the truth. He told me he will not see her. Now I am stuck...I know now she is not willing to give up, I don't trust him a bit with all he is saying because I have no visibility what is going on there and I was told so many lies and all I found out was because I revealed not because he wanted to come true. We read the safety measure, he is sending me pictures but all seems to me like a theater nothing real. I am so paranoid that I think he is using the safety measures to convince me but with her there everything is the same there.