Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me?

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Question

On D-Day I discovered he was trying to schedule a prostitute. Four months later, just before we started EMS Online, he disclosed that he had been with prostitutes 3 times in the past year. Then I discovered the number was at least 10. He continues to claim that he had forgotten the other 7. He says he suppressed them because he was ashamed. I do not believe that he could remember 3 and forget 7 or more. Have you ever seen a wayward spouse with this level of memory lapse? I am paralyzed and don’t know what to do. It feels like our work so far in EMS Online is wasted because of the extent of this deceit. How can I move forward while convinced that he is still lying to me?

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