Q&A How Common are Affairs? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: Hey there Rick, Too many sources say different things. I've been reading the book you suggested, "Forgive for Good" by Frederic Luskin, and trying to make the affair "less personal." So I'll affirm that "affairs happen and I can't control others choices" in my HEALing process but there's always this nagging question mark behind it all going " are they really, or am I just lying to myself?" Thank you again for the affair recovery resources offered here, by the way. It has been paramount in helping me forgive and move forward. Really appreciate you guys! Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Find HopeHow to ForgiveQ&A Recovery LibraryWhy Marriages FailRL_Media Type: Video