Q&A How Do We Handle Separation during EMS Online? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My spouse had 2 physical affairs and after months of withholding information and continued lying and trickle truths and multiple D-Days I decided to split with him. I then had what he refers to as a revenge affair but we were separated. He wants me to feel remorse over this and I do not. What he did and what I did are no comparison. We are currently doing EMSO but where do we go from here? Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseRecovering AloneRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Video