Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy?

My husband says he loves me but seems to go out of his way to avoid giving me what I need to heal. He’s more concerned over himself having to feel guilt than he is that he broke me. He’s watched me go from a woman in love to a mere shell of a woman. I dont know of he loves me or not. My guess would be no. I feel like hes only with me for his own needs. But I know men aren't very good with showing certain parts of their emotions. I don't think my husband knows how to love a woman an treat her respectively like a woman is only as good as what shes got that he needs. I feel like i'm going to go insane with what his words are and how his actions don't back up his mouth. He will not validate my feelings but demands I do because the sadness i've caused is apparently more import and concerning.