You have answered a few questions of mine on here and I want to thank you personally for taking time to answer all of these questions! The entire AR team is truly amazing! My question today revolves around what to do after a divorce. I just recently completed HH and feel so blessed and so much better after the course and I truly feel I have a better foundation to build on now. My wife left me for the AP late last year. I tried everything I could to get her to attend counseling and get help, but she refused. She left me with no choice but to file for divorce and as of last month I did. I did not want this in any way and I wish she would just come out of her limerence, but I do not believe that will happen. I know that God will allow me to find another mate when I’m spiritually and mentally ready, but how will I know when that is? I worry that I will jump into a relationship too fast and fail at marriage all over again and I refuse to let that happen. How can I assure myself that I am ready to move on and how can I be able to trust someone else? Like John and Leslie from HH?