Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details?

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Question

Dear Rick,

I am a betrayed spouse and your website has been a tremendous blessing in helping me heal. After listening to quite a number of Q&A's on the website and reading some books about affair recovery, I am surprised to learn that the majority of women seem to be interested in learning about all of the details of their husband's affair. I am having a hard time understanding that. I know some of the details of my husband's 1 year affair with a co-worker but I feel that I don't want to torture myself anymore by knowing everything. Can you explain why the betrayed spouse would want so many details and if it's important for recovery.

Thanks.

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