Thank you for your website. I've been using it for 8 months and I've learned a lot. My husband has had 2 affairs and several close female friendships that have made me uncomfortable, all with co-workers, over the course of our 30 plus years of marriage. I've learned that his issues are that he has no boundaries with women, is a comforter, encourager and rescuer. He has a need to be liked and accepted and always wants to be seen as the nice guy. Sometimes he can be too nice. We are trying to restore our marriage but with these types of personality traits I'm concerned that I'm going to experience another betrayal somewhere down the road. Is it even possible for him to change enough so that this isn't an issue in our marriage anymore? I'm extremely skeptical and apprehensive although I know nothing is impossible for God. Thanks and God bless you.