My husband and I are 6 months from D-Day and still haven’t reached ground zero. The problem is we cannot agree on what happened. I’ve been honest and truthful with him, but he cannot wrap his mind around what I’ve done and believes there’s more to the story. I’ve had “mental” affairs, even developing feelings for one AP, but I never discussed them with anyone, including the AP, and never became physical or emotional. Does this ever happen & if not where do we go from here?