It has been over 2 months since my husband sat on the couch in the counselors office and I confronted him about the affair. He has refused to go back to the counselor since. That day our counselor recommended we go to the EMS weekend. My husband refused to go in February and March. I want for us to go - I don't know if we should be at "a certain point" before we go. He is still in his affair living with his parents for the past month and not committing to counseling or healing. My head says that I should wait until he agrees to try with me. My heart wants to just sign-up and drive him there.

When do you think could be the most beneficial time to go?