Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: Is it possible to gain anything from attending an EMS weekend or participating in EMSO if my husband is still involved with his AP? My husband and I have been talking about our options for seeking help for our marriage. We are separated and he is still involved with his AP. How is it possible to gain something from one of these options when the AP is still in the picture? Also, If we come to the weekend, do we have to stay together? I don't think I'm ready for that. Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Breaking Off The AffairFind HopeQ&A Recovery LibraryRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Video