Hello Rick, My spouse and I are doing the EMS online course, we are currently doing week 4. D day happened 3 months, and since then, lots more D days were to follow. On week one, when we signed the honesty agreement, he came clean and told me "everything". I only knew about 5 per cent of the infidelity. Today, after lots of what I thought were honest conversations, where I was starting to trust him again, there was another huge revelation that I had asked previously and he had lied. Does continuing to lie after signing an honesty agreement and lying to the support group means there is no point in continuing with the program? It is clear that he is unable to tell the truth at this point and hurting me even further than with the infidelity. Is it time to bail out? Thanks Ana