Q&A Should I Stop Trying to Understand? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: Despite almost 2 years of combing over what happened, I feel no closer to understanding how someone could have a problem in their marriage and not try to find a way to deal with it that takes into that they have promised lifetime fidelity and that they have children who need protecting. It still just seems awful and incomprehensible to me. Should I just give up trying to understand it?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryTrauma of InfidelityWhy They Did ItRL_Media Type: Video