My husband refuses to have any sort of a confrontation or yell at his affair partner. He argues with me and gives me various excuses why he won't. He says I'm obsessed. I think a big part of the problem is our living situation. We are living at his mom's home which is also where his affair partner lives. Things have gotten worse and he thinks I can't let it go. Should I be further along? I discovered the affair 18 months ago, went through multiple disclosures, and he didn't get it all out til around the 1 year mark. The affair partner hides in her room and refuses to talk to me which makes me think there is still secrets being kept. I know this sounds crazy, am I?