Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Apologize to the Affair Partner or Is There Another Way?

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My unfaithful husband has shared with me that he feels convicted to apologize to his AP. He now understand that the affair was all about him and his selfish desires and ultimately used her. My husband still has to work in close physical proximity with the AP. He is very safe when it comes to work, however the AP is loose cannon and not safe at all. She has publicly humiliated both of us on social media for 6 months after d-day airing out all our dirty laundry. She has told anybody and everyone who would listen about the affair including ALL my husband co-workers and then some. I appreciate my husband and how he feels convicted to make things right in his heart, but does he really have to apologize to her directly to make this happen? I feel like this is a relationship I never want repaired. And who knows how she would respond to something like this. What do you think Rick? Should he apologize or is there another way?

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