Q&A Is This a Sign of My Husband's Lack of Commitment?
To view this content please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.
Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.
Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.
Question
We are 15 months out from D-Day but only 5 months from the last time he saw the AP. My husband of 26 years AP was in his band and church choir. After discovery he made a lot of promises if I would give him a second chance. He has continued to break his promises. The other day a male friend of ours came over after dinner out of the blue he ask my permission if he and my husband could jam together. I felt blindsided and betrayed all over again. I was in a no win situation I'm not his boss or his mother and why now ask my permission no matter what I said there would be anger and resentment. I waited for my husband to answer, he said nothing, knowing it was a huge trigger for me. I question his commitment. What are your thoughts?
What type of affair was it?
Our free Affair Analyzer provides you with insights about your unique situation and gives you a personalized plan of action.
Take the Affair Analyzer
What to read next
Free Surviving Infidelity Bootcamp
Our experts designed this step-by-step guide to help you survive infidelity. Be intentional with your healing with this free 7-day bootcamp.
I would highly recommend giving this a try.

