My husband is a sex addict and had a psychological evaluation done. The psychologist diagnosed him as a narcissist and paranoid. We are 13 months out from D-Day and have just completed EMSO. My husband sees a CSAT and goes to 12 step meetings. But he still does not make me feel safe, he is angry that I haven't gotten over it. And I am angry that he does not "Get It". He says he wants to save our marriage but I am starting to give up hope. When I ask him to watch Samuel's videos he seems resentful. I bought him “Worthy of Her Trust” and “How to Help Your Spouse Heal from your affair”. He read them both but does not put them into practice. Can you offer any suggestions? Is there any hope?