We are almost finished with EMS online. My question is about going forward with my husband. He has been unfaithful numerous times over our 10 year marriage and I feel at this point he has gotten it. This is the first time we actually got help for the infidelity. Still it would make me feel more comfortable to have a contract. It seems that he’s never understood the ramifications of his actions in the past and for my own sanity I feel like a contract will help him look at the consequences if he begins to revert back to toxic thinking or acting out behaviors. Both his individual counselor as well as his sex therapist says it’s not a good idea. Just wanted to know if I was off base with this one?