What are your thoughts about renewing vows? My husband is a sexual addict and suffers from lying and manipulation. I am struggling with co-dependency and anger from the affairs. My husband and I are in week 2 of EMSO and have a lot of hope that this marriage will be better than ever. We both realize that we have a long ways to go, but we would eventually like to renew our vows. I am not sure when the right time is and what all needs to be in place before we recommit ourselves.