I’m concerned that my expectations may be off. Is it too much to expect my unfaithful husband to initiate conversations about recovery? Is it fair to want my unfaithful husband to tell me about his personal recovery? Is it fair to want him to watch the EMSO videos with me and discuss the lessons before or after the group call? For the last year, I feel like I have been the one to initiate all recovery efforts. Is it fair after all this time to expect to see my husband fighting for us, instead of still leaving it to me?