Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself?
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Question
It’s only been 2 weeks since D-Day so I realize we’re in the early stages of all this. I was discovered having inappropriate text message conversations with another women. Since then I have given my wife full access to my devices, connecting her to all my social accounts, emails, etc…I gave her an Apple Watch connected to my iPhone, bought her a laptop connected to my iCloud, I even voluntarily brought up taking a polygraph to prove that I have not only given full disclosure but that nothing sexually physical has ever happened outside of our marriage, which I did and I passed. I love my wife and my family, I am so ashamed and remorseful for what I’ve done and will do anything to show her that anything like this will never happen again. I am so thankful that my wife has chosen to stay but I am struggling to know what more I can do aside from just showing up everyday in this way and that the only thing left is action and communication over time. Any suggestions of ways I can continue to facilitate healing and rebuild trust with my betrayed spouse?
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