Q&A What is Your Opinion of Detachment in Recovery?
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Rick,
Thanks so much for fielding these questions. Extremely helpful in recovery.
What is your opinion of detachment during recovery? I am the betrayed and I'm not feeling safe with my wife at times. I don't want her to see me as the unstable husband who is codependent and an emotional wreck. I feel like I need to protect myself from being vulnerable. Weiner-Davis calls it the 180. I want to give us a chance in the long term but not comfortable to go all in right now.
Thanks
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