My husband waited until the day after we got home from our EMS Weekend to disclose shocking things I never would’ve guessed he had done. This was his fourth disclosure in 10 months. I feel extremely betrayed and upset that he ignored the advice of all the counselors to disclose during the weekend so I would have a support system. He states he did not disclose because He saw me healing there and didn’t want to ruin it. I think he was just looking out for himself. When is enough enough? How will I ever trust again? I am starting the grieving process and trauma all over again and feel like I’m going to have a nervous break down. When do I know that it’s time for me to leave to save my own sanity?