Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect?

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Question

My husband is now doing the work in EMSO after 8 years of this behavior while I begged & warned him to stop. These last disclosures were sooo much more than I ever expected. I feel resentful now after forgiving him over & over & truly showing him grace. When is enough, enough? I feel like I’ve lost so much self respect...like me giving him this chance again after all these years of begging is basically telling him & myself I’m not worth being faithful to. Am I not just sending the message that I’ll keep letting him have his cake & he gets to eat it too? I’m a good, attractive woman & awesome wife & could just remarry another who sees my worth. Why waste more years of my life hoping this is the last time?

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