Q&A When Do We Leave out of Our Own Self Respect? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My husband is now doing the work in EMSO after 8 years of this behavior while I begged & warned him to stop. These last disclosures were sooo much more than I ever expected. I feel resentful now after forgiving him over & over & truly showing him grace. When is enough, enough? I feel like I’ve lost so much self respect...like me giving him this chance again after all these years of begging is basically telling him & myself I’m not worth being faithful to. Am I not just sending the message that I’ll keep letting him have his cake & he gets to eat it too? I’m a good, attractive woman & awesome wife & could just remarry another who sees my worth. Why waste more years of my life hoping this is the last time?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryRecovering AloneSeparation and DivorceRL_Media Type: Video