Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal?

I’m currently enrolled in Hope for Healing and I am benefiting greatly from the daily interactions and assignments. My husband watched your video and agreed to the privacy of this group. My problem is that he reads our posts and then threatens me with divorce every time I express any frustrations on my part. I’m not allowed to have any feelings at all except shame and disgust at what I’ve done. Certainly I’m not supposed to vent there! He sees it as disrespectful. My only solution is to not use the group as a source of strength and encouragement but that doesn’t seem right! This is supposed to be our safe place, right?