I am the unfaithful. We are 13 months from D-Day. I have completed HFH, I continue to participate in calls with my group, I am now working with a new therapist for 4 visits. My wife will not do HH or EMSO. My wife continues to shut me out, distance herself, and pretend I don’t exist. She will answer questions with one word answers, but most will go days without speaking to me. She is full of hate. She says the only reason we are still together is for our 4 small children. Everything I read and hear on your website says she is in the anger/denial phase and hasn’t accepted or grieved what I’ve done. I don’t know how to help her with his because she wants nothing from me. Do you see people never move forward from this?