What are your thoughts on asking my spouse to sign a post nuptial agreement regarding how parental custody would be handled in the event that he had another affair? My husband is doing everything he can to restore our relationship and understand why he had the affair. I still struggle with trusting him because of the absolute fear I went through during the time he was planning to leave, because of the callousness he showed to my children's future, and his horrifically reckless choice of a stepmother for them. I feel like that request takes away from my faith in the power of what God can do in someone's heart and I don't want to stop any good momentum we have in building trust in each other. But I don't know if having something like that would help me move forward. It's very confusing and I would appreciate your advice.