Social Shame Survey Social shame is based on our perceived value according to the people groups we belong to. Have you experienced this social shame in your own life? Have you felt as though you were overcome with social shame due to the choices your spouse has made? Maybe you felt like my wife Stephanie early on in our recovery. She felt social shame not because of something she had done but, because she was now part of a shameful marriage instead of a respectable one. Social shame isn’t based on personal failure; it is ascribed to us by the people groups we belong to. As I have alluded to previously, there is an unexplored dimension of the recovery process from infidelity. This dynamic of honor and shame significantly impacts our responses to betrayal and the healing timeline, and if long term recovery is going to take place, we must discuss it deeper. Surviving infidelity just isn’t enough. We must find healing and we must find restoration for ourselves and our spouse. Mobile users follow this link: Shame Survey We are passionate about helping people find healing from the pain of infidelity, thank you for helping us help others. For more on social shame check out the following: Social Shame: A 4 Part Series Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Social Shame: Have you Been Dishonored? Social Shame: Surviving Infidelity Isn't Enough Social Shame: Four Ways to Stay in it Sections: NewsletterFounder's LaptopFree ResourcesHot Off the PressRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseFor the Unfaithful SpouseRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Text