Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Questioin 5 months after D Day myself and AP are still contacting each other and discussing elements of the affair. I will say I want to cut off all ties to her and each time I say "this is the last time" but there always seems to be a reason for new contact. Is this normal? Is it healthy for my healing? Our healing? Submit A Question To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Leslie and John's archiveDescriptions: For the hurt spouseRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseRecovery FundamentalsSafety in RecoveryRL_Media Type: Audio