Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Dear John and Leslie, I am the hurt spouse. My husband and I were separated for 5 months at my request after I found out about his affair. I wanted a divorce, but a breakthrough happened at the EMS Weekend and we have been working on getting back together for about a month. We have committed to Rick’s recommendations on how to reintegrate him back into the home and back into physical intimacy and are following those guidelines he g…