Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner?

Question

I know this subject has been covered extensively and I have read much of what I can find regarding this issue (including Rick's recent article). However, I'd like to ask your opinion regarding contacting the AP.

In my case, I knew the AP very well. I worked with her for a total of six years and my husband's affair was during the last two years of that period. Therefore I was betrayed by two people and I continued to work with her on a regular basis for two ...