Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers

Question

Dear John and Leslie

Thank you so much for all the help you give us. My husband and I have been married for 13 years and we are in the process of reconciliation . We have two girls seven and nine years old. I discovered his affairs in November of last year 2013 . And this time of year is so difficult with our children's birthdays and the holidays around the corner... I can't get my mind out of those dates and what and where he was 2 years ago when he was ha...