Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: Rick We are 5 months post D day from 2 1/2 yr affair my husband had. Most advice says it is better for recovery to talk extensively about the affair. is there any danger in asking my husband about his affair partner since it requires him to think of her and the things they did together? Sections: Recovery LibraryRick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseHandling DiscoveryQ&A Recovery LibraryRecovery FundamentalsSafety in RecoveryRL_Media Type: Video