Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. My question involves one of my husband's APs. (the one he had the physical affair with). I know her name but I want to know who she is, what she looks like (very important to me) and where she lives and works. I have asked myself why I want to know. I am the type of person that would rather just know what the facts are no matter how bad it is than wonder, or worse not know. I need details. I feel like I am entitled also (since he had an affair w…To continue reading, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to read the full article.Sections: Recovery LibraryLeslie and John's callsRL_Category: Emotional RegulationFind HopeFor The Hurt SpouseHandling DiscoveryIntrusive ThoughtsRecovery FundamentalsSafety in RecoveryRL_Media Type: Audio