Q&A How can he Love me and Love her?

Question

I am having a very difficult time understanding/accepting that my husband "fell in love" or had strong feelings and still has feelings for his affair partner. This is especially difficult because we planned, became pregnant and had our first son. I cannot understand how he could have fallen in love during this special time in our life. Furthermore I cannot understand why it was so hard for him to stop communication with his AP once I caught him and why he was so...