All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 4966 Resources Type Title Posted Rick's Q & A Call on February 4 1/28/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on January 28 1/22/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on January 21 1/08/2013 Rick's Questions - January 21, 2013 1/08/2013 My wife is resentful toward me eventhough she's the one who had an affair, she feels she married the wrong person, what can I do? 1/08/2013 Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013 Surviving the Holidays: 5 tips 12/18/2012 How to Change, Part Three 12/18/2012 Our families are unsupportive of our recovery process, how should we respond? 12/17/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on January 7 12/17/2012 Is Change Really Possible, Part Two 12/13/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on December 17 12/11/2012 I'm changed, but my husband can't forgive me, what should I do? 12/11/2012 Advice for Holly Petraeus 11/29/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on December 3 11/28/2012 How do you respond if the unfaithful spouse refuses to be sexual due to the fact the hurt spouse isn't happy? Should they wait until the unfaithful spouse comes around? 11/28/2012 How do you respond to a pastor who doesn't want the hurt spouse to speak with anyone about what happened for fear of disrespecting the unfaithful spouse? 11/28/2012 I'm having trouble letting go and trusting, are there objective milestones I should look to in our recovery before trusting again? 11/28/2012 How do I talk to my teenage son about masturbation? 11/28/2012 Infidelity's Trifecta - Why Even the Strongest Can Fall 11/21/2012 , Coping with Infidelity: 6 Barriers to Recovery 11/14/2012 , Coping with Infidelity: 6 Barriers to Recovery 11/14/2012 Rick's Questions - January 7, 2013 11/12/2012 My affair was 8 years ago and my mate still hasn't gotten over it, He's been detached for 13 months, what can I do to help while in the course? 11/12/2012 Can we acheive any progress when one spouse is resistent to the program? 11/12/2012 My wife and I have both been unfaithful, how do I take responsibity for my part in this when she's also played a part? 11/12/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on November 19 11/12/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on November 12 11/06/2012 Understanding Infidelity: Helping the Unfaithful Start Recovery 10/30/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on November 5 10/22/2012 Working on my recovery seems to make my wife angry because she wants to feel pursued, what should I do? 10/22/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on October 22 10/09/2012 If my mate is being insensitive in recovery and I have to tell him he's hurting me, does he really love me, shouldn't he know what to do? 10/02/2012 Is it codependent for the hurt spouse to manage their mate's recovery if they aren't feeling safe? If unfaithful spouse refuses to get help what should they do? 10/02/2012 How does a hurt spouse know when to let go, when her mate wont get on board? 10/02/2012 Is it possible for an unfaithful spouse to really be in love with their affair partner? 10/02/2012 We are 3 years from discovery and my mate is traveling out of state, is it wrong for me to suggest he go to a recovery meeting before leaving to give me peace of mind? 10/02/2012 Is it unreasonable to expect my mate to at least personally explore her issues with intimacy or is her answer that she's praying enough? 10/02/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on October 8 10/02/2012 Earlier in our recovery process i filed for divorce, we're now doing better than ever, I've put the divorce on hold, but should I cancel it? 9/10/2012 My mate won't tell me what's happened, is there anyway to help him tell me the story of what occured so i can move on? 9/10/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on September 24 9/10/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 3 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 2 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 1 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1, part 3 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1, part 2 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1 part 1 8/29/2012 My husband and I are seperated while I work on my healing - he's obessessed with wanting to save the marriage, how do convince him I'm interested in reconciliation? 8/27/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on September 10 8/27/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…868788899091929394…next ›last »