Well... If You Would Have...

Samuel, Alumnus
Submitted by Samuel 10 years 10 months

It's common for a spouse to say "Well, if you would have done ____, I would have never cheated." While I said that myself many times, a deeper explanation of what is going on in the mind of the unfaithful is needed for clarity and healing.

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas

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