Q&A Did My Spouse Affair Down? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My husband had a sexual affair with a woman with one aspect of her appearance being the thing he’s found most unattractive in women. He looked embarrassed when he talked about her appearance. Like he was embarrassed he didn’t pick a more attractive affair partner. Would this be what you describe as affairing down?Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: Q&A Recovery LibraryTypes of AffairsWhy They Did ItRL_Media Type: Video