Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True?
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Question
My husband had a three year emotional affair with a woman 20 years younger. He says he never stopped loving me and is actively engaged in recovery. He tells me he loves me but he has lied about everything. My feeling is that he may say he loves me but is not “in love” with me. I feel a disconnection in our shared intimacy that speaks to me of this possibility. His emotional affair has been physically over for a year now. How do I begin to deal with this being true?
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