Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Wed, 10/25/2017 - 14:34

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I am a little over 2 years out from discovery of my wife's affair. Her affair partner was a close friend of mine that I have known for many years. He has not attempted to contact me, and one of my greatest struggles is extreme anger towards him. I feel strongly that I will struggle with the inability to forgive him until we have met face to face and I have heard his explanation. What are your thoughts on this?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas